Sex positions websites
use plenty of lube, and choose something firm but flexible; silicone, jelly, and something called Cyberskin are very comfortable.
A smooth dildo is best to start with since the anal canal is so sensitive. But you can also get physical pleasure by using a vibrator in the harness and one that is designed for stimulating the clitoris or even the vagina as you fuck your man.
Anal penetration with a dildo has featured in mainstream and pornographic movies; for example, in the 1970 film Myra Breckinridge, although the first explicit scene occurred in The Opening of Misty Beethoven (1976).
The documentary Bend Over Boyfriend, produced by Carol Queen, also features it. Its not unusual for men to fantasize that a woman is anally penetrating them: some act out their desires.
The act is (or may be) enjoyable for both man and woman: men get pleasure from stimulation of the anus, rectum, and prostate so long as enough lubricant is applied, and women get stimulation from the base of the dildo against their clitoris or from vaginal penetration if the dildo is double ended.
Or a woman can use a vibrator to get pleasure as she fucks her man up his anus.
The prostate gland is situated between the outer wall of the rectum and the point where the penis emerges from the body: it's the size of a walnut and is very sexually sensitive, so that under stimulation it will intensify a mans orgasm and/or the power and quantity of his semen ejaculation.
You need the right equipment for good anal sex - especially when the man is the one who wants to experiment.
It allows easy penetration and produces a relaxed opportunity for enjoyable anal sex.
There is no loss of sensation, the sensitivity of the anal sphincter is reduced and if your partner is relaxed there will be no discomfort.
The best position for anal sex is to have the receiving partner lie down on his back, legs pulled up, with his female partner fucking him in a missionary-style man on top position.
However, many couples like sex with the man bent over or leaning forward doggy-style - this adds to his submission.